In Search of Gentle Death:
by Richard N. Côté
With a foreword by Derek Humphry, founder of The Hemlock Society
www.insearchofgentledeath.com
Now, 90% of Americans spend their last weeks or months on Earth in nursing homes, hospices, or in hospitals. Often hooked up to life support equipment they do not want, many experience unrelenting, unrelieveable pain which palliative care cannot overcome. Many live out their last days in complete isolation from their friends and family. Most of them would strongly prefer to choose a certain and painless way to depart their life on their own terms and schedule, while they are still rational and have sufficient physical and mental capacity to do so. But most state and national laws make that impossible. The members of a large, active, rapidly-growing group of loosely-affiliated organizations around the world are working to change that. This book explores the lives, ideals, and goals of the founders, leaders, and millions of members of the death-with-dignity movement worldwide, and their fight for the right of anyone, anyplace, to die with dignity.
Driven by public demand for legal change and an increasing public awareness of intolerable suffering being rigidly enforced by government policies and religious officials, a vigorous grassroots international death-with-dignity movement started flourishing in the mid-1970s. It fights to establish euthanasia (Greek for "good death") and the right to die at the time and place of one's own choosing as a fundamental human right, rather than a privilege subject to the arbitrary judgments or the imposition of the will of politicians, lawyers, religious leaders, or the medical establishment.
Opinions about self-deliverance and physician-hastened-death vary greatly from country to country. But in the United States, Canada, and most Western European nations, a strong majority of the people have stated their support for laws which would enable them to legally choose how, when, and where they die, including by physician-hastened death. Switzerland (1942), The Netherlands (2002), Belgium (2002), and Luxembourg (2009), as well as the U.S. states of Oregon (1994), Washington (2008) and Montana (2008) have already legalized euthanasia or physician-hastened death for rational adults.
On the other hand, suicide, assisted suicide, and euthanasia are opposed by the Roman Catholic Church, a majority of conservative Christian denominations, and some disability rights groups. In the face of their well-organized and vocal opposition, lawmakers worldwide have shown great reluctance to pass laws permitting the terminally ill to hasten their own deaths, even though a majority of their constituents endorse such laws.
In Search of Gentle Death will break precedent with all previous books about this subject in three key areas. Earlier works focused chiefly on the ethical, religious, and medical viewpoints. While giving those topics full consideration, In Search of Gentle Death will tell its story by spotlighting the intensely personal and painful end-of-life crises which drove about twenty key people to create what is now the international right-to-die movement.
The book will also explore for the first time the role of "exit counselors," a new breed of knowledgeable volunteer guides who provide personal counseling, technical advice, emotional support and their personal presence if and when these people do end their lives. In addition, it will examine the origins, workings, and accomplishments of the NuTech Group, a small, intensely private affiliation of physicians, scientists, and self-deliverance experts who first assembled in 1999. They are dedicated to a single goal: developing methods of self-deliverance that are legal, painless, easy to use, reliable, inexpensive, present no hazard to others, and do not require the assistance or permission of any second party to use.
The Fight for Your Right To Die With Dignity
Revised September 19, 2010
If asked how they would like their death to come about, many people say that when the time comes -- hopefully a long time down the road, they quickly add -- they would like to peacefully pass away in their own bed, at home, surrounded by their loved ones. Unfortunately, these tranquil passings are no longer common in these days of high-technology medicine.
In Search of Gentle Death explores the rapid evolution and accelerating growth of the modern death-with-dignity movement in the United States and abroad between 1975 and the present. As Derek Humphry, founder of The Hemlock Society and author of Final Exit said, the movement seeks to help bring about the peaceful end of life "for persons when dying, trapped in a ruined body, or just plain terminally old, fragile, and tired of life." There is rising criticism that keeping dying people alive against their will is a violation of their civil rights. Humphrey feels strongly that "Life should not be a sentence. The freedom to die in the manner of our own choosing is the ultimate civil liberty." Based upon recent polls in the Western world, about 75% of the public--and over half of their physicians--agree with the concept.
In Search of Gentle Death will be drawn from insightful new interviews worldwide by the author with the movement's leaders -- and their most vociferous opponents. Unlike some pro- or anti-euthanasia books, this non-partisan volume will accord all parties and their beliefs the respect to which they are entitled. The highly readable book will contain numerous illustrations, tables, an extensive bibliography, and a comprehensive index. It will be published in 2011. And best of all, it will be available not only in hardcover and softcover editions in the U.S., but also by download worldwide in multimedia eBook formats for the Kindle, iPad, and smartphones.
Richard N. Côté is an American humanities scholar and public speaker whose award-winning books focus on extraordinary achievement and the triumph of the human spirit. A Connecticut native, he majored in journalism and political science at Butler University and is a combat veteran of the Vietnam War. In 1979, he joined the staff of the South Carolina Historical Society, where he worked for several years before turning to writing full-time. He has appeared as an expert commentator on Dateline NBC, C-Span 2/Book TV, and numerous television and radio programs. His books have received excellent reviews in The American Library Association's Booklist and in the Library Journal. In 2004 he was awarded the Bobby Gilmer Moss Award in History by the Daughters of the American Revolution. He watched his mother, Anne, die after unstoppable deterioration from Amytrophic Lateral Sclerosis (known elsewhere as motor neurone disease) between her diagnosis in 1982 and her death in an Indianapolis hospice in 1984. Côté himself was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2005. He immediately elected to have surgery, and has been a grateful and healthy cancer survivor ever since.
Côté's book reflects four years of intense research, and is based on primary information sources and direct interviews with the founders, leaders, members, and opponents of the death-with-dignity movement. In October 2010 he will be a featured speaker at the World Federation of Right-to-Die Societies' Biennial Congress in Melbourne, Australia. His new book, clearly written for the lay reader and meticulously documented for the scholar, explores diverse perspectives and presents the full spectrum of of opinions, so that his readers may draw their own conclusions about how to plan for their own optimum end of life. In addition to the present topic, he has authored, co-authored, or edited books on extraordinary women of the nineteenth century, the Great Charleston Earthquake of 1886, emotional healing, male and female sexual abuse, medical malpractice, mind-control cults, cross-cultural relationships, and cryonic life preservation. He may be reached as follows:
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